The Tech Visionary Who Rewrote the Rules
Dame Stephanie Shirley isn’t just a pioneer in technology – she’s a revolutionary who changed the game for women in computing and entrepreneurship. A Holocaust refugee turned self-made millionaire, she built one of the most successful tech companies in the UK, all while breaking barriers for women in a male-dominated industry.

Her story is one of resilience, innovation, and the courage to challenge societal norms.
You can always tell ambitious women by the shape of their heads, they’re flat on top from being patted, patronising.” – Dame Stephanie Shirley
A Refugee Who Refused to Be Defined by Limits
Born in 1933 in Nazi Germany, Stephanie Shirley (originally Vera Buchthal) was sent to England on the Kindertransport at age five to escape the Holocaust. This early displacement shaped her resilience and determination, teaching her the importance of independence and adaptability.

Despite excelling in mathematics, she faced gender-based discrimination early in her career. She was repeatedly denied opportunities simply because she was a woman. Instead of accepting these barriers, she decided to dismantle them.
Find something you really care about, get trained, surround yourself with first class people… and then enjoy. – Dame Stephanie Shirley
Building a Tech Empire on Her Own Terms
In 1962, Shirley founded Freelance Programmers, a software company built with an unconventional vision – hiring women, particularly mothers, who were often excluded from the workforce. Her business model was radical:
- She hired women to work remotely (decades before remote work became mainstream).
- She allowed flexible hours, prioritizing work-life balance at a time when such an idea was unheard of.
- She signed her business letters as “Steve Shirley” to bypass the gender bias that often shut doors in the corporate world.
I could hardly believe I was being paid so well to write software because it was such fun. – Dame Stephanie Shirley

Her gamble paid off. Freelance Programmers became a multi-million-dollar tech empire, working on everything from the Concorde’s flight control systems to early projects in artificial intelligence.
A Legacy of Giving Back
After achieving financial success, Dame Stephanie Shirley turned her focus to philanthropy, donating over £67 million of her fortune to causes close to her heart, including autism research, after her son was diagnosed with severe autism.
We waste too much time being afraid, when what we should really fear is wasting time. – Dame Stephanie Shirley

She has also championed women in STEM, mentoring future generations and advocating for gender equality in tech. Her belief? Success means little unless you lift others along the way.
Lessons from Dame Stephanie Shirley’s Journey
- Turn Obstacles into Opportunities: Instead of fighting the rigid corporate system, she built her own – a revolutionary move that changed the way people worked in tech.
- Success is More Than Profit: Shirley’s story teaches us that true success isn’t just about wealth; it’s about creating impact and leaving a lasting legacy.
- Break the Rules – If the Rules Are Holding You Back: From using a man’s name to land contracts to creating an all-women tech company, she redefined what was possible for women in business.

Entrepreneurs who succeed are those who can deal with failures… pick themselves up, brush themselves down and move on. – Dame Stephanie Shirley
A True Trailblazer
Dame Stephanie Shirley once said, “I had to work at being a success. You have to work at it. But work is such fun.” Her story is proof that breaking barriers requires courage, persistence, and a willingness to rewrite the rules.
She didn’t just open doors for women in tech – she built an entirely new way of thinking about work, leadership, and success.

What’s Your Take on Her Legacy?
How does Dame Stephanie Shirley’s story inspire you? Share your thoughts in the comments as we celebrate her groundbreaking contributions to technology, business, and philanthropy. Let’s honor the women who redefine what’s possible.
I give back because I was given so much as a refugee, by total strangers. How could I not then give back? – Dame Stephanie Shirley.

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